Don’t stay where you are tolerated, go where you are celebrated!
Too often, we put ourselves in a position, where we spend time with people who tolerate who we are, and this leads to us having to justify our very essence, which is actually exhausting.
I can tell you from personal experience, I have quirky tendencies. I’m wired differently, I think differently, and I definitely act in a way that doesn’t work for everyone.
But here’s the thing, I have my own flavour, and I’ve made peace with the fact that it’s not to everyone’s liking. My mentality is that I would rather go where I’m celebrated, and that thinking has worked really well for me. I hope this hits home for you too.
The balance is that you should be working on yourself constantly, and always trying to become a better version of yourself. But through that process, you still won’t get everyone to like you, and that’s ok. When this clicks for you, a whole new life will be waiting for you.
One last thing… Often times, we grow up with people who used to celebrate us, and then we outgrow each other. This is also ok. This is just how life works.
Sometimes people are only meant to be around for a season. Other times, people will grow with you, and that will be a beautiful thing too!
Never forget to trust in GOD AND GIVE THANKS SHALOM❤️